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Post by Keagan Gerislynn on Nov 19, 2006 16:31:02 GMT -5
He said do...so I thought he was talking having done that in the past. -shrugs-
I think she would mind -shrugs- ...though, it would probably depend on where he drew the line and what not.
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Post by matthias on Nov 19, 2006 16:36:20 GMT -5
Possibly. Or she might just be laid-back enough to not really care.
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Post by Keagan Gerislynn on Nov 19, 2006 16:40:58 GMT -5
Potentially...why would she be doing things that he had to put his foot down on, then?
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Post by matthias on Nov 19, 2006 16:42:10 GMT -5
Maybe she has habits that annoy him? I dunno. I'm just playing devil's advocate here.
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Post by Keagan Gerislynn on Nov 19, 2006 16:49:24 GMT -5
LoL, you tell me I have habits that annoy ye, I'm gonna wonder why ye didn't tell me sooner. And then wonder why yer still with me.
Oh, I know you are. I love it! XD -is a trained discussionist- Boo yah!
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Post by matthias on Nov 19, 2006 16:53:31 GMT -5
Perhaps they woudn't bother me until later....and habits can be fixed. Finding a person one likes with few annoying habits is much harder.
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Post by Keagan Gerislynn on Nov 19, 2006 16:56:06 GMT -5
It's easier to fix habits when you haven't been getting the impression that your habit is an acceptable behavior previously. That's one of the reasons why, when quirks go from being endearing to annoying, there's lots of tension in a relationship.
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Post by matthias on Nov 19, 2006 17:02:40 GMT -5
True. But if a quirk is not endearing, but slightly annoying, and it becomes more annoying, there's tension due to that.
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Post by Keagan Gerislynn on Nov 19, 2006 17:07:34 GMT -5
If it's slightly annoying from the get-go...why not bring it to light or hit the trail then instead of becoming attached otherwise to something you eventually won't be able to tolerate?
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Post by matthias on Nov 19, 2006 17:12:19 GMT -5
Perhaps it would have seemed tolerable at the beginning. I'm sure there's many relationships with situations like that.
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Post by Keagan Gerislynn on Nov 19, 2006 17:16:40 GMT -5
I am, too...most of the relationships of that fashion that I'm familiar with aren't very successful, though.
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Post by matthias on Nov 19, 2006 17:18:09 GMT -5
If that's the case, I would assume it's mostly because they didn't work hard enough to get past those little things.
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Post by Artemis Tayern on Nov 19, 2006 20:56:32 GMT -5
wow.... one comment springs a torrent of conversation. I set the lines and when she tryed to cross I put my foot down, thts how I was, am and will be thats basically it.
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Post by dean on Nov 19, 2006 21:01:51 GMT -5
I didn't even know we were talking about real people. Thought we were speaking theoretically.
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Post by Drew Thornton on Nov 19, 2006 21:59:43 GMT -5
Either way, it's my experience that girls don't really like it when you "put your foot down" may be why Artie there is single
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